Author: cahouser


  • Beating Perfectionism Means Striving For Collisions, Not Beauty

    Beating Perfectionism Means Striving For Collisions, Not Beauty

    Tuning forks produce ethereal, harmonically pure musical tones. Musicians use them to tune their instruments. The crystal clear, frequency-perfect note vibration is a precursor to a violinist or cellist producing a dazzling piece of music. But what comes before that gorgeous, sustained ringing of the tuning fork? A big, dumb collision. A gesture devoid of […]

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  • Be Careful What You Carry

    Be Careful What You Carry

    I was sitting on the trunk of my beat up Honda in a nondescript apartment complex parking spot. Waiting for my bass player Monty to hop in my car so we could drive to practice. My amplifier was in the backseat poking out of the open window. The scene was an accurate depiction of life […]

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  • The Beautiful Game

    The Beautiful Game

    I remember two things from my first trip to Argentina. The first is that I ate steak for lunch and dinner for eight days in a row. The second is the story of my first proper Latin American soccer experience. This is that story.

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  • The Reversal

    The Reversal

    In the beginning, fathers embarrass their sons. Later, sons embarrass their fathers. And if embarrassing your son is cool, my dad was Miles Davis. For some kids, their dads yell too loud at a soccer game. For others, dad oversteps from chaperoning to moonwalking at the middle school dance. For some, it’s post-workout grunting while […]

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